Monday, July 30, 2012

Thank you! from Charlotte

So this girl has finally recovered from surgery - hallelujah! No more crying and asking for "nedicine" in the middle of the night or whining constantly (well, more than usual =)
She doesn't snore anymore and she breathes throughout the night without suffocating herself with her ginormous tonsils.

We wanted to say thank you to SO many people who sent her or dropped off gifts. Our elderly next door neighbor even went to our little ice cream parlor and got her a pint of sherbet. We had people from church drop off popsicles and get well cards. And she had so many presents come in the mail like her Minnie Mouse jewelry (below) that NanaMoo from Texas sent her. She got movies, coloring books, sticker books, cartoon bandaids, suckers, and many get well cards. It seemed like each day she would have something new to open. It definitely would help snap her out of feeling gross and groggy when she had a new toy or movie to distract her. Every time someone stopped by or we'd open a gift she'd say "Oh! Wow. Wow. Wow. Wow." She also got lots of phone calls daily of people checking on her and saying hi to her over the phone. 

So thank you to everyone that helped make her feel special.


 and below is more about Ben's birthday... his most favorite hoodie I got him... the superb key lime pie I made for him (not that I want to toot my own horn or anything, but...)... the shirt and hat my sister Laura sent him... he was one happy birthday boy.
         



Sunday, July 22, 2012

Happy Birthday Ben!


He turned the big 2-9... only one more year left in our twenties...weird... 

Anywho, we got to spend yesterday afternoon and all evening together. It was heaven. He's been working in the ICU this month and his hours suck. Last week I saw him a total of 4 hours.

We celebrated by leaving our wee one with friends and heading downtown for seafood and the new Batman movie. Good food and a pretty fantastic movie.

Today was his actual birthday and I made him a key lime pie from scratch that was pretty magnificent and we BBQ'd.
He has a pretty sweet Amazon wish list that I and some family ordered from - so I'd say his birthday was pretty sweet.

Happy Birthday, Babe!

Wednesday, July 18, 2012

Zoo.Baseball.Texas.Surgery.Volleyball.Etc.

Wow. So I'm using Ben's computer and found that he has WAY more pictures than I do on mine. So this is a post completely overloaded with images. If there are typos, I apologize, but there's no way I'm editing through this beast of a post.

Obviously this is from Easter. I have the cutest playgroup friends that meet every week (or several times a week) for fun activities. Here, we're collecting eggs.

 Almost every single day that Ben gets home he takes Charlotte out to play baseball. Here they stopped for some artwork.

On a zoo and ice cream date with Dad. 





 Launched through the air to land on the Love Sac.


Another baseball game. 
We've been to 30+ Cub's games in the past 5 years and before this season have watched them lose maybe 3 times. Even though they've never been good, we always saw them win. This season, however, they might have won 1 that we've seen.
So depressing.

 A different game where the temperature was 100 degrees.


The great state of Texas.
The Dude (Ben's Grandad and handsome man below) passed away back in May. His wife, Nana (NanaMoo to Charlotte), made sure that his memorial service was at a time where the whole family was able to make it. Luckily, Ben had a solid week off in July and the rest of the family worked out their schedules and were all able to come. It was a great mini family reunion down in Austin.


We had so much fun in that week. We went swimming, played games, went kayaking and paddle boarding, stayed up late watching movies, and ate amazing Texas BBQ.

Charlotte was the only kid. So she ate up attention like nobody's business.

In downtown Austin there's an old hotel named the Driskill that is gorgeous. If we're in the area we walk through it. We noticed they had these tiny pieces of furniture that Charlotte quite enjoyed.

 One of these days I'm going to actually purchase a cowboy hat when I'm in Texas.

 My family at the memorial service.
 Blurry picture of the cute siblings.
 Ben, creepy looking Hans (cousin), JoJo (cousin), and Nathan (BIL).
 Okay. So I didn't take many pictures, but Jenna, my SIL, did. So these are from her camera and she is in a lot of them. =)









 Cousins Hailey and Hans and SIL Jenna.
 Love this man. Even if his glasses have glares from the flash.
 I rarely saw this kid. It was usually when she was crying about something that I saw her.
 We brought next to no toys for this kid to play with so while we were at Uncle Pete and Aunt Jenni's house, Hans brought his toys out to play with. Unfortunately, all of his toys were missing heads and limbs. She was a wee bit confused.

 She loves playing music, but I guess what 2 year old doesn't?
She played on this piano and sang until her mother told her to stop and take a tiny break. =)
 Wearing Auntie Jenna's cute shoes in her Jessie cowgirl pjs.
 Being shy before going swimming with her 2 aunts and uncle.

 Another swimming time with Daddy.
 Hanging out in the backyard.



 Cute siblings.
 NanaMoo has a huge yard that she loved to use her energy on running and running.



 Hazards of staying in the home of a golfer.
 NanaMoo trying to teach Charlotte how to play Mexican Trains.
 "I don't know about this... it's too difficult."
 With Auntie Caitlin.
 With Auntie Jenna.
 With Uncle Nathan.
 JoJo and Jenna
 Charlotte's signature look with Hailey

 Aunt Jenni (Hans, Hailey, and Hannah's mom), Caryn (Jaci (who couldn't come) and JoJo's mom), and my MIL Marci.
 This cute and happy couple just celebrated their 1st anniversary last month.



 Nana with Uncle Jim
 My FIL Jeff and Uncle Pete


 BOWLING!



 DOS SALSAS - we go to this Mexican joint every time we visit Austin.
 Joe wearing all of Grandad's clothes at his memorial service.

 Irish pride

 All of the family that was able to make it came from California, Colorado, Texas, Utah, Illinois, and Missouri.


The Surgery.

Ever since Charlotte was tiny she's snored. Her tonsils were so big they practically touched in the middle. About 6 months ago we noticed it got worse and she would stop breathing at night. FREAKY!

So we took her to a pediatric ENT and showed her a video of her snoring and stopping breathing at night and she took a look a her tonsils and knew those puppies had to come out.

A week ago today she had her surgery.
Ben had to work in the ICU so he popped down before and after her surgery to check on her which was a relief. I tend to have to do most things by myself because of his work schedule, but this was not one of those I was excited about.

Her surgery was at 8:15 am so we were there at 6:15 and she loved that she was at Daddy's work.
We put her tiny hospital "dress" on and they brought a little wagon in for her to ride in which she loved. They gave her an oral drug to help keep her calm when they wheeled her away later, but she spit most of it out. Luckily some got into her system =)
 In the holding room before being wheeled away to the operating room where she'd be put under.

 This is about the time the oral meds started to work. She played with stickers and drew pictures and wanted to show all of the nurses that came by. She was also incredibly cheerful and acting silly.

 The doctor came in to say hi and then the anesthesiologist. When he walked in she stuck out her hand for him to shake and said "nice to meet you".
Then as they wheeled her away (which I was nervous about) she gave me a smooch, held the anesthesiologist's hand, and they pulled her wagon down the hallway. She never once looked back and chatted the whole way down. I heard her say something about seeing balloons on the wall and the anesthesiologist said that she was about to see a big balloon that she was going to breathe into. Haha.
 Going in to see her afterwards was horrible. I could hear her moaning down the hallway right when she woke up. I came into the room and she was slouched in the nurses arms waiting for me with her eyes closed crying. As soon as they said I was there her little arms came up and she squeezed me so tight around the neck I got teary (from emotion - not lack of oxygen). Then she bawled and bawled. They had paged Ben so he was on his way. I just sat there in a chair holding her oxygen close to her mouth and rocking her as she woke up. She kept pulling at her IV and managed to yank it out which got her quieted down fast. She fell asleep for a few minutes, drank some water, then they thought she was ready to go to her recovery room. As I was being wheeled to her room she gagged on her spit and mucus and threw up all over me. Nice. Which then got her crying again.
 Once we got to her room she downed a bunch of water and red slushy (they had a slushy machine on the pads floor). She was so happy to have something cold on her throat and something in her tummy we let her eat and eat.... which made her throw up again all over her, me, and the bed.
This got her crying again until we cleaned her up, gave her a little water, and then she fell asleep on my chest for almost 2 hours. Once she woke up she had a couple of blue slushies (I think she was turned off by the red ones after throwing it up), water, and asked for food. 
When the nurses came in she chatted with them and took a little walk with one of them.
Then we knew she was ready to hit the road.
The first few days at home were fabulous. She carried on like nothing was wrong and only woke up once or so at night to get more medicine. 
Then it hit. 
The last few days have been tough. She wakes up 3 or so times a night screaming because of the pain in her throat. Then it takes a good 10-15 minutes to calm her down so she can take more medicine.. 
oy vey...
When she's got her medicine in her system she's perfection, but as soon as it runs out - watch out! I try to get it in her before it completely runs out, but that's hard to do at night.

So that's where we are now. We take advantage of her good and happy times and get out of the house to play and then when the storm hits we head home.


A few days ago Ben had his first day off in weeks so we headed downtown to a doughnut joint and then to a beach volleyball tournament.

We waited in line for 45 minutes for doughnuts at the Doughnut Vault.
Totally worth it.

 Then we sat and watched beach volleyball for a few hours (luckily in the shade since it was over 100 degrees out).
 Then we played in the water while a storm slowly approached us.


After 20 minutes of splashing in Lake Michigan, the heavens opened and gave us a torrential downpour so we headed home.

Wow. That was quite an update.